Now that you’re starting this amazing new chapter post divorce, we’ve got your back with a checklist to help you find your footing. Let’s dive in and make sure you’ve got some things covered as you navigate life!
Sorting Out Finances
- Update Your Accounts: Time to close those joint bank accounts and credit cards and open new ones just for you. Make sure to update your information and beneficiaries on all financial accounts and insurance policies.
- Budget Check: Take a good look at your finances and create a budget that fits your new situation. If you need some help, don’t hesitate to reach out to a financial advisor.
- Alimony and Child Support: If you’re dealing with alimony or child support, make sure you’ve got a system in place for payments, whether you’re receiving or paying.
Legal and Paperwork
- Legal Documents Update: Dust off those legal docs and update your will, living will, and power of attorney to reflect your new status. And if you changed your name during marriage and want to switch back, get that paperwork rolling (so long as it wasn’t done at your final judgment!)
- Spread the Word: Let the important folks know about your divorce – your job, banks, insurers, and anyone else who needs to know about changes to your personal info or accounts.
Housing and Home Life
- Decide on Your Digs: Figure out what you’re doing about housing – are you staying put, selling up, or hunting for a new nest? Once you’ve decided, make sure your address is updated everywhere.
- Make Your Space Yours: Whether you’re sticking with your current place or moving to a new one, take some time to make it feel like home sweet home.
Taking Care of You
- Lean on Your Squad: Your friends and fam are here for you, so don’t hesitate to reach out for emotional support. And if you need some extra help, therapy or a life coach is always a great option.
- Self-Love Time: Make sure you’re looking after yourself, inside and out. Treat yourself to things you love, practice self-care, and focus on your well-being.
- Dream Big: Now’s the perfect time to think about your goals and dreams for the future. Set some new goals for yourself and make a plan to make them happen.
Moving Forward Strong
Divorce might be tough, but you’re tougher. By following this checklist and taking things one step at a time, you’ll come out of this stronger than ever. Remember, you’ve got this! 🌟
